You may have passionate feelings about the one you love, but it’s not necessary that she also thinks alike. Unrequited love can be painful, so the sooner you get over it, the better. However, it’s not always easy since you are likely to cling on to every emotion that you believe shows her care and affection towards you. You may fail to realize that her care and affection can also be a result of true friendship and not necessary love, the kind that couples share. If you are confused, here are some sure signs that will clearly tell you that she’s not into you.
She avoids physical contact: People in romantic relationships can be seen touching each other, as it is a means to express their love and share feelings that cannot be described in words. If the one you love avoids physical contact, it’s a clear sign that they are not interested in you. You need to avoid making first moves in this case, as it can ruin your relationship.
Her family and friends don’t know you: If she has not introduced you to her close friends or family members, even when you have known each other for a long time, it’s a clear sign that she’s not into you. When two people enter a romantic relationship, their worlds also collide. If that’s not happening in your case, it’s time to look elsewhere.
She does not take initiative: If it’s only you who is taking the initiative to communicate or meet each other, it’s a clear sign that she’s not interested in a romantic relationship with you. If you were the one she likes, she would take initiative to make conversations happen and spend time with you.
She says its just friendship: If she tells you constantly that you are just friends, it might be true. She is trying to tell you that you are not someone she would prefer in a romantic relationship. You can either continue to be hopeful that your friendship will blossom into love or simply move on. Also, no harm if it’s the friendship that you cherish and are willing to keep your love to yourself.
She tells you clearly she’s not interested: Nothing can be clearer than this. If she tells you in words that she’s not interested, she’s telling the truth. Don’t analyze what she really implies, as those things don’t matter. In such cases, just move on and look elsewhere.
Don’t be disheartened if the above seem true in your case. Time heals all wounds. Also, remember that destiny may have something better for you. Anyways, you can’t force someone to love you no matter how hard you try. Move on and enjoy life – it’s possible that one day you will find someone who will have the same feelings for you, as you have for them.