Marriage is one of the most important decisions of your life, one just cannot be careful enough while going through the searching process. And with the advent of online websites, today’s youth has been swept with a whole new plethora of choices and decisions.
But with the right intent, correct guidance and a little common sense, this process can become a whole lot simpler. Here are a few tips to help you find your better half.
Find the correct site – A no brainer, right! There are a lot of online matrimonial sites available, many of them are free. It’s important to evaluate your time, budget and personal requirements before signing up on any website.
Verification – If a website offers the option to become a verified member, always opt for that. Provide correct details about yourself, and honestly portray yourself as you are. Do not sell yourself short, but also do not get too self-conscious about your flaws. Your perfect match will love you for the person you are.
Go through the online profiles with a pinch of salt – Ask for all social media links of the potential prospect, and go through them thoroughly. In case of any discrepancy, ask the person directly. If they avoid answering or make invalid excuses, block them immediately and move ahead.
Talk practically, but cautiously – Until and unless you are sure about the person’s background, it’s prudent to exercise a little caution. Do not get emotionally involved, and do not reveal personal information.
Meet quickly – A few mails and calls are enough to know whether the person is compatible or not. Arrange to meet without prolonging too much. More importantly, keep your family in loop about all your actions.
Have patience – Finding your perfect life partner amongst hundreds of choices can sometimes be daunting. Don’t be discouraged by a few wrong options. There are matrimonials which provide personal assistance and customized prospect list as per your preferences, thereby saving a lot of time and effort. Invest time to go through these profiles, and take time to build a proper relation.
When it comes to marriage, it’s always better to be safe than sorry. Have confidence in yourself, your perfect match is out there, waiting for you.
By : Saurabh Goswami, Founder, Ultra Rich Match